Thursday, April 19, 2007

A Wedding...

Richard and Maria Teresa



I promised pictures of the wedding last week. The groom, Richard, is an Assistant Pastor at our church in charge of the youth group, ages 15-18. He is Jewel's teacher and they have about 80 teens in their class.

I knew him as a small child when we first arrived in Venezuela 20 years ago. It thrills my heart to see him active and serving in the church.


So here are the BEFORE pictures.
The girls are going to kill me if they see these!






And the AFTER pictures!


Jewel


Jewel with escort, Oswaldo.





Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Getting To Know Me!



For all the new readers!

Everything you ever wanted to know
about Jungle Mom...
or not!




Why the name "Jungle Mom"?

Meet my husband , Yekwanaman!

Get to know my children!

A short summary of my blog!

Now you know me...Leave a comment so I can get to know you!



Un Relato Para Mis Amigas Latinas


Yo estoy en la lucha para poder rebajarme unos kilitos, quien no? Bueno, ví un aviso el otro día de una oferta. Un paquete de 10 masages reductivos. Suena bien. Me gusta masages y me gusta rebajarme! Debe ser doble de grato, no? No hay nada que perder!

Entré, y una muchachita, chiquitica, me mandó subir la mesa y acostarme. Hasta ahora ,todo marcha bien. Esa malvada mujer empezó de dar me DURO!!!! De la cabeza hasta los pies. Me dió, me estiró, me golpió de arriba para abajo! Yo estaba aguantando ese dolor, porque me dió pena que alguien tan pequeña podría causar tanto dolor!

Por 45 minutos me abusó! Me dejó maltratada. Con moretones en la bariga de todo colores. Morado, azul,verde, amarillo! Na'guara!

Pero lo peor de todo fue despues. Me bajé de la mesa, nerviosa, y la chica me miró con una sonrisa de inocente! Y dijo," Bs. 28,000"! Despues de todo el maltrato, yo tenía que pagarle por el abuso! Y aún peor de eso, es que cuando ella recibió la plata de mi mano, me dijo,
"Nos vemos mañana."
Y,yo dije...
que SI !!!


(Y ahora, ji ji ji,a ver cuantas gringas me regañan por escribir en castellano!)

Monday, April 16, 2007

Lost Comments!

I am not sure why, but several comments would not publish. If you had left a comment this morning, could you please re-do it for me?

Sunday, April 15, 2007

A NOT so itsy bitsy spider!


One thing you see a lot of in the jungle are spiders. At first, they catch you off guard and give you a fright. But after awhile, you start to expect them and don't get too excited when you do see one.

There are several poisonous spiders and they are not all big. Some are quite small. Of course, many are Very large. The tarantula is by far the largest. But even tarantulas vary in size. The average tarantula has only about a 6 inches leg span. However, things in the jungle are rarely average!

We had several encounters with spiders. The scariest spider is not as large as the tarantula, but is very fast. This is the Monkey Spider. It has only about a 4 inches leg span but can jump several feet in one single HOP! It is also poisonous. Once my son was chased by one of these monkey spiders!

But the tarantula is huge! My husband knocked one out of our palm roof which was so heavy, I heard the THUNK as it hit the floor even though I was in another room!

Tarantulas however are stupid and slow, and it is a good thing they are!If you ever run across a tarantula, remember this...don't poke at it, it will rear up into a striking pose and reveal it's fangs! Don't hit it, it's exoskeleton is too hard! Don't dare touch it, its hair will cause severe itching! So what to do?

My husband learned this the hard way, but all you have to do to get rid of a tarantula is...BLOW on it! Really, bend down and puff at it! It will run away! Every time...well, most of the time anyway. My husband was camping out on a river trip once and a tarantula was nearby. He bent over to get a closer look, and a cruel jungle MK (missionary kid) blew on it! The thing nearly climbed Clint's leg! You got to watch out for those MK's! They are by far the most dangerous creature in the jungle!

My kids would often catch tarantulas to play with during school. Like I said, Mk's are ...different. The game went like this. Place the tarantula in the middle of the table where all 4 kids are studying. As the tarantulas crawls toward them, the child will PUFF on it and redirect it towards their sibling, who will in turn, PUFF it towards another. This can go on for hours! I know, my kids are strange,but...HEY! They had no X Box!(or even nintendo!)

But one day, we saw the MOTHER OF ALL TARANTULAS!!!

My son had the daily chore of taking out our garbage. We had dug a big garbage pit about 50 meters or so away from the house and each day the trash was dumped there and burned.Josh left with the trash one morning and quickly came running back to the house. He ran into his room, grabbed his pellet gun and ran back out the door. I yelled after him, " What are you doing?" He answered over his shoulder, "I am going to shoot THAT spider!"

Now, we all heard this and decided to run after him. We wanted to see this spider he planned to shoot!He had complained for days that there was a big, BEEFY,spider living in the garbage pit. He was right!

We arrived at the pit right as he took aim. This tarantula was HUGE! It was the size of a dinner plate! This was no spider to swat at with a magazine! No, Josh was right. The only way to get rid of this baby, was to shoot it.

Which he did.

Saturday, April 14, 2007

Dad Has Left the Hospital


For a detailed report on my father, please read my sister's account on her blog.

Friday, April 13, 2007

The Real Mum

"A mother's love goes on and on,
even when her child
is grown and gone.
God planted a Mother's love so deep
that the roots of it
go deep and far into our hearts.
There is no place to resign,
quit, or escape."


I have been tagged by Tina for The Real Mum meme. Today, however, being a real mom for me involves opening my home up to 9 of Jewel's friends as they all prepare for a wedding tonight. This involves having their hair, nails and makeup done! They are all to be bride's maids along with Jewel and Jayde will be singing as well. That being said, I do not have time to do this topic justice and I hope to re-visit the subject later. There is poem by Marshal. H. Hart that I feel does a pretty good job at describing the REAL MUM.


What Do Mothers Do All Day?

Every minute, to and fro,

That's the way my hours go;

Bring me this, and take me that,

Feed the dog, take out the cat.

Standing up, I eat my toast,

Drink my coffee, thaw the roast;

Empty the garbage, make the bed,

Rush to church, then wash my head.

Sweep the kitchen, wax the floor,

Scrub the woodwork, clean the doors;

Scour the bathtub, then myself,

Vacuum carpets, straighten shelves.



Eat my sandwich on the run,

Now my afternoon's begun;

To the baseball game I go,

When will there be time to sew?

Meet the teacher, stop the fight,

See the dentist, fly the kite;

Help with homework, do the wash,

Iron the clothes, put on the squash.



Shop for groceries, cash a check,

Fight the crowds, now I'm a wreck!

Dinner time it soon will be,

What's for dinner?"

Wait and see.



Dirty dishes crowd the sink,

Next there's popcorn, then a drink;

Will they never go to bed ...

Will I ever get ahead?

"Bring me water,"... "Get the light,"

Turn off the TV, lock the bike;

"Where's my pillow?" ... "Hear my prayers,"

"Did you lock the door downstairs?"

At last in bed, my spouse and I,

Too tired to move, too weak to cry;

But as I doze, I hear him say,

"What do mothers do all day?"







My Husband Will Pay a Ransome!

It all starts out innocently enough! Just a quick check in to moderate a few comments! The next thing you know, you see a new commenter. You want to be polite and visit their blog, so you read a post..or two! Then, you leave your comment, BUT...ha ha ha, that last commenter sure sounds funny, I'll just link surf right on over there to see if his blog is as funny as he sounds! Then...wow! What a great post...oh, look a troll! I'll tell that troll a thing or two!! Wonder what his blog looks like?... then...you realize ...

I am One of a Kind !


HowManyOfMe.com
LogoThere is
1
person with my name
in the U.S.A.

How many have your name?

I have had several nick names in my life.
In Elementary School I was known as Rita Book! (Read a book) I always had my nose in a book.
In Jr. High school I was known as, The Baptist Nun.
In High School, I was The Preacher's Kid.
When I arrived in Venezuela I was usually called, La gringa.
In Ye'kwana they called me , Jaduudu (banana)

Why? Well, when a banana ripens it develops brown spots. I have freckles just like a ripe banana! I know, very flattering!!

What about you all, any nicknames you want to share?
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Thursday, April 12, 2007

You should all be Linguists!


For God so loved the world, that He gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.. John 3:16



Porque de tal manera amo al mundo, que ha dado su Hijo unigenito, para que todo aquel que en el cree, no se pierda, mas tenga vida eterna. Juan3:16



Wanaadi tameedä soto cumjumma'to jooje, chääjäcäinchädäiñe Tönnedö yäätonno 'jemjönö tu'ene'jödöödä. Iiñedö ecaanö’nei annamjö'da na'de, yeichö töwaatamemjönö töweiye na.
Juan 3:16

Care to Translate ?

Wanaadi tameedä soto cumjumma'to jooje, chääjäcäinchädäiñe Tönnedö yäätonno 'jemjönö tu'ene'jödöödä. Iiñedö ecaanö’nei annamjö'da na'de, yeichö töwaatamemjönö töweiye na.

This is what the Ye'kwana language looks like when written.
Any one want to venture a guess as to what this could mean?
I will give you three clues.

1) It is a verse from the Bible.

2) It is from the New Testament.

3)




Give it a try! Leave your best guess as a comment!

Sunsets Across Venezuela













Venezuela,

From The Delta Amacuro,
To the Gran Sabana.
Through the sun baked llanos,
And on to Chajuraña!

Ethnocide? (by Yekwanaman)


Chajudaña was the village of choice for hosting most of the inter-village reunions because it was the healthiest, best organized and most able to provide food for the other villages. The other indian villages chose Chajuraña repeatedly for these cultural events.


I recently received an anonymous comment that said I was guilty of ethnocide. Here is the comment ....

"The word ethnocide barely begins to describe the atrocities your ministry is inflicting on indigenous cultures along the Rio Caura."


Read more here..



Be sure and leave him a comment to encourage him!

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Update On My Dad!

My Dad is sitting up and wants his hair to be combed less than 24 hours after having a triple by-pass performed on his heart! He is even refusing pain medication as he says he only is a little sore! Seeing my Dad looking this good, this quickly! WOOHOO!!! I feel like this...


Thank You Lord!!

To Luke

You are cruel.
I suggest you read I Corinthians 13.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Out of Surgery

THANK YOU!!!!

My Dad is now out of surgery. They ended up doing three by passes. One of the old by passes was not operable. The Doctor expects all to go well and I appreciate your prayers!

I'm Gonna Go Eat Worms!






When we first arrived in the village we did everything possible to befriend the Indians. We could not speak their language, and very few of them spoke Spanish ,so this meant spending time with them. Observing, imitating, and learning.

One morning, a group of women showed up at our house. They were all very excited and kept pointing at me and reaching for my arm to pull me towards the river. My husband laughingly said, "Go ahead! It looks like a ladies day out!" So I went with them, where ever we were going!



At the river there was only one man as he was the Motorist for the outboard motor on the back of the dug out canoe. He looked very nervous to be a lone man among so many females. Funny how that is the same in all cultures! There were about 20 women all giggling and getting in and making room for others. The seats of an indian canoe are.... NOT made for the backside of most gringos! Rather narrow, often just a trimmed branch wedged in place.

I was caught up in the excitement of the ladies! Lots of giggling . They tried to explain what we were doing and where we are going. I caught about .01% of what they were saying. I saw a few hand made fishing poles and figured that we were going to a new fishing hole.


After about two hours and a couple of rapids we arrived at the end of the Chajura River. There is a beautiful waterfall there at the mouth of the Majawa River.

I wish we would have had a digital camera at the time so I could show you. We missed a lot of great shots because we tried to be considerate of the Indians and did not want to go around taking pictures all the time. Unlike the anthropologist who consider them their objects or specimens for study, we as missionaries treat them as people with feelings and the right to privacy.

The canoe stopped and all the ladies jumped out, grabbed their buckets, shovels, machetes, whatever! No one grabbed the fishing poles so I did. The motorist left. He seemed relieved to leave all of us women.



The women had begun to dig into the river bank with their tools. I saw what they were digging for and thought ,"OH! BAIT!" They were digging up earth worms. I must explain something to you! If you have never seen an earthworm of the amazon, you have no idea! They are a grayish purple in color. They are FAT critters. About the width of your thumb! AND they are huge! Like 2-3 feet long! I figured , maybe 10 worms or so could be cut up to provide bait for all of us for the fishing we were planning to do. ER...the fishing I was planning. But these women had 5 gallon buckets and were filling them all.

It actually was fun to dig for worms. You dig into the mud and there you will see lots of squirming worms half hanging out. Then you grab on with both hands and pull. Pull, but don't break the worm! That would cause all the women to rush over and try and explain how to pull the worm out whole. So, I kept pulling worms and was getting pretty good at it. I was wondering why we needed so many worms when I looked over at a group of ladies on the bank.

They were getting out the indian hot sauce and cassava bread. "Oh , good, a lunch break!" I thought. Then I saw some of the women had been in the river washing the worms. Hmm... would the fish we caught with the bait really care if there was a little mud clinging to the worms?

One lady ran up the bank with a hand full of worms, still squiggling and grabbed cassava bread, smeared hot sauce on it and ...placed the worms in the bread, rolled it up, kinda like a tortilla wrap sandwich, and ...GULP!!! BIG BITE!!! Did I mention the worms were still squiggling?

Now every one ran up with their clean worms and I finally realized we were not going fishing! And I realized why we needed so much bait! And I realized, I did not want to eat worms!





What did I do? I kept digging for worms ! Then I took the fishing line and started to fish! I made sure to look very busy and happy at what I was doing! The women would come and offer me a handful of worms on cassava bread... but I would laugh and shake my head, and point to the fishing line. Thank goodness the motorist came back about then!

We took back about 30 gallons of worms and the whole village feasted on them.

Yes, there were times,
I'm sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew.
But through it all, when there was doubt,
I ate it up and spit it out.
I faced it all and I stood tall
And did it my way.





In a few years, I would come to the point of being able to eat worms. I prefer them smoked over a fire though. They sort of taste like a Slim Jim and are a good snack. My youngest daughter would prefer to eat worms over chocolate chip cookies! She would take her cookies or brownies and go around and trade them for worms!

Dad is in Surgery


Thanks for your prayers. Dad was taken into surgery at 6:00 am . God is faithful and we are placing Dad in God's hands.

Monday, April 09, 2007

Menu Planning Monday

Now that I am a little more relaxed about my Dad's condition, I wanted to go ahead and post my weekly menu plan. I have noticed on a lot of the Moms' Blogs it is a very popular feature.

I have never been one to be able to know what I would want to cook or eat on any given day. In the jungle, I never knew if we would have fish, or meat! Or just yucca ! It all depended on what was brought for trade.


I have been resistant to the planned menus, but here goes, a first for Jungle Mom...a week of meals I hope all will enjoy! Perhaps it will help you in your meal planning!











Monday





Tuesday








Wednesday








Thursday










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Saturday









Sunday

Still Waiting!

They informed my family that Dad will be waiting until tomorrow for his surgery. I am beginning to think that First World medicine is a lot like the Third World's medicine! Thanks for all your prayers!

I am a little frustrated waiting, but I know God is in control.

Surgery


Last summer with my grand daughter, his great grand daughter, before they left for Paraguay

My Dad is having his double by pass surgery today at noon. I have not been able to speak directly with him, which is very hard. Please pray that all goes well and that he can recuperate quickly. Thank You!

UPDATE: We were all just able to speak with Dad this morning. He sounds like he is in good spirits.

Saturday, April 07, 2007

My Son, My Son! My Only Son!

In Memory of Baby David Lopez


It was Easter week. I will never forget it. We had only been in the village for about a year. I had made friends with one indian lady, Linda, as she was one of two women in the village that spoke a little Spanish. Her husband , Antonio, was the school teacher in the village. He had been born and raised in the village of Acanaña and had been trained by missionaries there. He had also been sent to town to receive a high school education. Other than our two indian foster children, he was, perhaps, one of the most educated indians of the tribe at the time.

They had flown out to town a couple of months earlier so that Linda could be near a hospital to give birth to her fourth child. She had only just returned to the village a few days before with her three week old son. Her first son, as her other children were girls. Her only son, as they had performed a tubal ligation on her at the hospital. She came to the house and proudly showed him to us. Antonio would be flying back in on a separate flight the following week.

On Saturday, she came to us in the morning ,on her way to her garden. She said the baby had been fussing a lot the night before. My husband checked him out, but all seemed fine. Clear lungs, no mucus, no fever, good heart rate! He was a cutie who was beginning to smile!

She continued on with the baby to her garden to get food for the family. That evening she arrived back at the house. It had rained that day, she and the children were soaking wet. The baby was feverish. When Clint listened to his lungs, I knew we were in trouble just by the look on his face. His temperature was at 104.

We began to do all we could for the baby with the limited tools available to us. He had developed double pneumonia in about 12 hours. Unfortunately, we had no oxygen in the village. We had penicillin, but not the fast acting, injectable which is the preferred treatment.

As the evening wore on, the baby began to struggle to breathe. We had called out by radio to have the plane ready to fly out for the patient first thing in the morning, if he was able to make it through the night. The missionaries in town had found the father, Antonio, and he was prepared to receive his son. The missionaries had arranged for an ambulance to be at the airport. IF the baby survived the night.

Around mid-night, we almost lost him! Clint began CPR, and was able to get him to breathe again. But...about an hour later, he stopped breathing and we repeated the process again. He had a weak pulse but once again began to breathe on his own.

This happened more times than I can remember. My husband wore himself out trying to breathe for the small baby. We had to take turns breathing the breath of life into the child. We did this for hours.

Any doctor will tell you, you should not do this! CPR is meant to be used for a short time only until medical help can be reached or the paramedics arrive. BUT...there was no medial help and we were the paramedics!

Around 4 am, Clint was breathing for the child and I felt the babies pulse, slowly falter, lighter and lighter, until...nothing. Clint's eyes were on my face as he also felt the life slip away.

Linda also realized the exact moment her son died. She did not understand what Clint and I were saying to one another, but she knew!

She stood and began to cry out, "My son! My son, my only son!" I went to her , to try and comfort her. She sobbed all night in my arms. "My little son!"

Clint had laid the baby down and asked for someone to help him. But the indians are terrified of dead bodies and at that time would not touch a corpse.

The Ye'kwana often would take a dying person out into the jungle so that they would die there alone and away from the village. If someone dies in a house, no one would live in the house afterwards. They would hire the Sanema tribe to bury the body for them so that they would not know where it was. This is due to their fear of the spirits.

Antonio and Linda were Christians though. Once we realized no one would help with the baby, Clint went out and built a tiny casket all by himself. He only had a battery powered flashlight and hand tools. I wrapped the baby in a soft cloth and comforted Linda and my own small children who had watched and heard it all.

The other indians all sat around and wailed the death chant ...all night. They were very concerned that we had the body in the house with us. But where should we put him? It was a dark, rainy night in the jungle.

The next morning we informed the pilots by radio that we had lost the patient but to please fly the father out to the village anyway. The men in the village had begun to dig the grave. We were only waiting for the father to arrive for the burial.

When Antonio came in on the flight, they left immediately for the grave sight. Antonio and Linda had become Christians through the ministry of the missionaries in their village. They wanted a christian burial for their son.

Remember, now, it is Easter Sunday morning. As he placed the small casket into the cold, dark, muddy hole he began to preach!

He told them all that he was very sad to lose his only son. His heart hurt! But...he would see his child again!" Yes," he said. "I know that the Son of God, Jesuquiriitu, has taken my son to be with Him in heaven! His body is here in the ground but his true person is with God! And I know that when I die, I also will go to the place of God and I will see my son again!"

He told the old, old story of a Savior who came in the form of a babe and laid down His life upon a cross. The Son of Wanaadi (God) had died to take away the sins of the world so that all who believe might be saved! But Jesuquiriitu did not stay dead! No, He rose again!!!! He defeated death on the third day and rose again. Jesuquidiitu, was seen alive by many witnesses after that and had promised to go to the place of His Father, Wanaadi, to prepare a home for all who believe! A place where the houses are not made of mud, nor cement blocks but had streets of gold! And Antonio, and Linda, had put their faith in that. They would see their small son again and be with him!

I remember that night and how we had done all in our power to stop Death. We could not stop Death.. We are only human. BUT ...I remember that Easter morning in the rainy jungle! I saw the power of the resurrected Christ work in the hearts and lives of a forsaken people in a forsaken land.

John 11:25 Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:


Upon a life I did not live,
upon a death I did not die;
anothers life, anothers death,
I stake my whole eternity.
-Horatius Bonar

Update On My Dad

From Pam;

Now moving onto Dad! He is stable and therefore was moved onto the regular floor this afternoon, so he is no longer in Cardiac Intensive Care. He is off the nitro drip and blood thinner IV as well. The room he is in will afford him to get much needed rest as he gears up for his surgery. The room is large with a full couch and recliner in it. As a matter of fact, they brought my mom pillows and blankets and she is staying there tonight. Dad got up for awhile and sat in the recliner. The best thing that happened to him to day is that my mom brought in his glasses and Bible!

The surgeon came in this afternoon and told him the by pass surgery will take place at 12:00 noon Monday. The two arteries which need to be replaced are from the original five which were replaced in 1999. The veins they used have just worn out. We had hoped that first by pass would have lasted longer than 8 years. At least this by pass surgery is being entered upon in a calm, informed manner. The one in '99 was an emergency surgery in the middle of the night!

Your kind comments are so warming to me and to my dad as well. I have been printing them out and taking them to the hospital to read to him. He and my mom were struck at how strangers from all over the world are lifting him up in prayer. Thank you all once again.

Friday, April 06, 2007

Thanks To My Blogging Family


This is my Dad with my nephew after church.
My Dad is being kept comfortable and stable. They have decided to wait and do the surgery on Monday as long as he continues to remain stable.
I feel like this gives us a little more time to prepare ourselves for his surgery. Knowing my Dad, he is probably lamenting the fact that everyone is worried for him and that he wont be able to preach in his pulpit Easter Sunday.
I know the Lord has granted us this time and I for one am so glad that my husband will be here with us during the wait while my dad is in surgery.

So Thank you all and Thanks be to God who loves and cares for His children.

For an Update on My Dad

My sister gave a detailed account of what is happening here.

Thursday, April 05, 2007

The Storms of Life

UPDATE: My son just called at 12:00 and says the surgeon has not yet arrived but that my Dad is more stable and they may wait until Monday for the surgery. He has not spoken directly to the surgeon so there seems to be some confusion.

Please uphold my Dad in prayer as he is having an emergency double bypass this evening. My mom, brother, and sister and her family as well as my son are all with him in Tampa. I am here in Venezuela and am feeling very lonely and useless as even my husband is not here. He is out of town and will not be back until Saturday.

Please pray for my father, Pastor Jack Riffe. He is in the hospital with heart problems. He had heart surgery 7 years ago and yesterday began to experience severe chest pains. I am waiting for more details.

Update: My sister has more information of his condition on her blog. He is going in this morning for more tests. I hope to know more then. Thank You ! For all the prayers.

Missionary Moment

It seems that this year, so far, has been one of conferences. We had the Pastor's Conference in January. The Couple's Retreat in February, followed by the Independent Baptist Ladies Conference in March. I taught at another Women's Conference in Yaritagua last week end, while Clint traveled to Maracay and gave a Marriage Conference at 2 different churches.

We have had 3 weddings and another one next week. Jewel will once again be a Bride's Maid and Jayde will be singing at the reception.

Our church celebrated its 23 Anniversary. This is the church Clint pastored when we first arrived in Venezuela. We had over 1200 people on Sunday morning. The children all had to remain in their Sunday School classes as there was no room in the auditorium. We had also set up extra classes in nearby homes. We normally run 800 or so on a Sunday morning.

My husband is gone this weekend to our Baptist Men's Camp in Nirgua. He says over 300 are registered this year. We were remembering back 18 years ago when we held the first camp with 13 men in attendance.

Clint is giving the men a 6 session training seminar on marriage. I was going through his power point presentation on "Understanding the Emotional Needs of a Woman" and found this slide.



So girls..are we really that complicated?!?!

Wednesday, April 04, 2007

It's A Small World!


A few weeks ago, I received a comment from Susan. Thanks to her incredible memory, and the fact that I had just done a meme which listed my maiden name, we found out we had been class mates years ago in Greenville, S.C. She remembered a red headed little girl named Rita Riffe. Yep, that was me in Mrs. Wilson's class at Tabernacle Christian School.

She is now a pastor's wife in Canada and I am a pastor's wife in Venezuela. It is good to hear of another little kid growing up and serving the Lord full time! And it is better yet that she happens to be a red head as well. We may have a little gray now, but you are born a red head for life. Being a red head is an attitude!

Then a few days ago, low and behold! I hear from the daughter of one of our Directors at our mission. He passed away last October and is greatly missed. We admired him and his life long work of missions in Brazil and then in the home office. She found me through a comment on another friends blog and...here we are! Blogging Buddies!

Just the last few days I have been trying to get in touch with another American missionary here in country and had met only dead ends. We lost contact after our move from the jungle and their furlough. I need to ask some pertinent questions and get some info from him...well, someone leaves me a comment and just happens to know his son!

I find all this to be amazing! Remember, a matter of months ago, I barley knew how to send an email. For the last ten years , I had relied on short wave radio for communication. I still want to end every sentence of a phone conversation with, "Over". I say things like, "Roger that", "Do you copy?" and want to hang up with a hearty, "Over and Out"!



But, here I am meeting old friends , and making new ones on this crazy high speed internet! And I am loving it!

I am probably the only one so impressed by all this. But, for someone who used to go months without speaking English to anyone outside of the family, who saw a newspaper once a month, who listened to the news in Portuguese because it was the only radio frequency we could pick up in the village... this is like MAGIC!

Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Happy Passover!


If you don't know much about the Passover, check out this site. I have enjoyed getting into learning more about all this, especially since reading Rena's blog in Jerusalem! She has been very patient in explaining things!


http://www.geocities.com/capecanaveral/lab/6562/apologetics/haggadah.html

Sunday, April 01, 2007

Jackie's Jungle Jollies

I am shamelessly stealing this from my daughters blog! Since I explained the Christian belief of the need for a blood atonement for our sins yesterday, you will understand the words of my son in this funny story. Enjoy !

Another Jungle Story

The baby in my womb has woken me up early today and I think I'll post a jungle story during this quiet time I'm having.

Lets see....which one...there are so many you know! :D Ahhh, yes, I know. The witch doctor story. Those are always good.

We were preparing to leave for furlough. We had furlough fever, more commonly known as Furloughitis. The symptoms of furloughitis involve cravings (for everything you can't get in Venezuela, but will be eating shorty in a matter of two months) such as Double Stuffed Oreos (my dad's favorite) Strawberry Pop Tarts (mom) Bagels and Cream cheese (me). Along with the usual Snickers, Olive Garden breadsticks, and Big Mac. Furloughitis also involves the hurried frenzy of taking all those last minute pictures for the slide presentatation. You have no idea how many missionary pictures are "posed."
"Hey, Tito, can you pretend like you're making a canoe, please??"
"Why?"
"So I can take a picture"
"I don't need to make a canoe."
"I know....just pretend."
"You've seen me make a canoe before."
"Right....but I didn't take a picture....I told myself I would take one later."
"But I only need one canoe. How many canoes did you think I was going to make?"
Anyway.
My parents had the brilliant idea of recording a witch doctors chant for the background music. My parents had a lot of brilliant ideas, usually at the expense of their childrens lives. As my dad would put it, "We're young. We can have more kids if we loose one!"
Now, the witch doctor is a little old man, who wears a loin cloth constantly and occasionaly puts on a shirt for special occasions. Such as coming to our house. He wasn't "creepy" in any way, or hostile, unless he was 'working' then he could give you goose bumps. He moved across the river to get away from all the people. He said Chajudana was too crowded, a bustling metropolis of 500 people. He slept in a hammock next to his dad's skull....yeah, that was creepy. I think over all though, he was more scared of us than we were of him. He thought we were way creepier I'm sure.
One day the perfect opportunity to get the background chant arose. The witch doctor was only a few houses away chanting over a sick woman. So my dad decides to send my brother (about ten years old at the time I guess) with small hand held recorder over. He told him to stand by the door, push record and stick the recorder inside the door. Just a few minutes is all I need, he said. Josh was TERRIFIED. The witch doctor was chanting, screaming, shouting, growling like a bear (all can be perfectly imatated by my brother now.) Josh told my dad he was scared, and it was creepy...and why didn't he do it. The answer was, "I'm too busy right now." But we all know he was just as creeped out! :D
My dad told Josh, "Don't worry son. You're under the Blood. Nothing is going to affect you. Now go."
My sisters and I walked with Josh to the house....well, we stopped about ten feet away and made him go by himself the rest of the way. He was muttering under his breath the whole time, "I'm under the Blood. I'm under the Blood." We watched as he stood against the outside of the house, and poked his hand with the recorder in the doorway. He recorded for a few minutes....in actuality it was about ten seconds, and bolted towards us. As he was running towards us, the pastors son, who knew we were all creeped out by the chanting, had climbed a tree that grew in the path, and just as Josh ran under it, jumped down and screamed like a panther. My brother is a white boy, but I had never seen him so pale as that day!
Josh returned the recorder triumphantly, my dad said it wasn't a lot of chanting on the tape, but it would have to do. Relieved to be all done with that horrendous task, we all went back to our school work.
If you ever see my parents slides from that furlough, listen closely to the chanting in the background. I'm almost sure you can hear "I'm under the Blood" being whispered!

Saturday, March 31, 2007

Time for some Chit Chat?


I have no time today to do any real writing so.... I was wondering if anyone has a question they would like to ask me? Any thing at all! And I will be around the computer and in the house most of the day, so I will check in and try to answer any question you may have. So...nows your chance...ask away...

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Blood , Sweat, and Tears!




If anyone asked me for my opinion ( yeah right! Like I'ld wait to be asked!) on what it takes to be a career missionary, I would answer, "Blood, sweat, and tears!"

It takes years to learn a language and a culture well . A language is picked up long before the culture is truly understood. In most cases, the missionary can attend a language school to learn a rudimentary knowledge of the language, but there is no class room to learn the culture. When dealing with a tribal language it is much more time consuming and the culture of course is totally alien to the western mind.

To learn a tribal language, one must become child like and follow people around and try to imitate sounds with out a clue as to their meaning. Eventually, you will begin to hear the different individual sounds and can transcribe...well, thats another whole blog!

To learn a culture is an important task for the missionary and it takes time, and, as I said, "Blood, sweat and tears!"

BLOOD? Yeah! You have to learn the cultural way of dealing with death. You have to find out their way of mourning and caring for the dead. This can be very different in each culture.

Take the Sanema tribe, I remember the first time I was invited to a "funeral". I walked to the village and found a spot around the huge fire being built. I saw the women screaming and crying and slapping themselves in dispare. I saw them bring out the body wrapped in it's hammock and, I saw them place the body upon the pyre. There is no smell quite like the smell of human flesh being consumed by fire.

At this point, the witch doctor really began to whip it up. I saw the women even more excited. This dancing and crying went on all day...all night... until, at last, the fire was allowed to die.

Not over yet though! Now comes the most important part! The most vital thing one must do for their dead loved ones...the drinking of the bones.

The women scraped through all the cinders, sifting through their fingers every last little bit. Careful to catch each piece of bone left. Then these bits of bone are taken and with a primitive mortal and pestle, are ground to a fine powder. Once this is prepared, it is added to a banana drink and stirred in.

Now, all the immediate family members of the deceased come forward and begin to drink the bones. They pass the gourd around solemnly from one to another. The tiniest baby must swallow some as well. NOW, they can relax and rest in peace! Their departed love one will now be ok!

By drinking the bones, they have guaranteed that their family member will live on in them. Now they will have eternal life by being part of the living. And when the living die, they will be consumed along with them by the next generation.

Why is it important to know this? It might explain to the missionary that the father who refuses to allow you to fly the sick child out to town for medical treatment isn't being a monster. No, he loves his child too much to risk him dying out among the "criollos" and being buried! For who would drink his bones? Who could guarantee the continuation of all the ancestors contained within the child? It is an act of love in his eyes.

We may think it morbid, but...it is actually the nature of man to desire life after death and if no one is there to explain the true path God has set for us to achieve it, this is their feeble attempt to acquire eternal life for themselves.




SWEAT! You bet, sometimes you have to work with them physically to gain their respect. In some cultures, you need to understand why they DONT seem to work at all! It is all part of how you will communicate truth to them in a way they comprehend.

I remember a group of visitors making an observation once about Ye'kwana men.

"They are so lazy! They sleep till noon and then sit around in their hammocks the rest of the day while the women do all the work!"

DUHH.. I thought! So would you if you had been out running through the jungle hunting all night and knew you had to go back out tonight since you weren't able to bring home meat for your family!

TEARS! You need to know what hurts them. You need to be with them in their times of mourning. Sit with them as an old, loved one slowly dies. Or as a newborn infant fades away.
I learned from the Indians, tears are not always visible. The worse hurts stay inside. The pain is for you alone and can not be shared, as this would cheapen it. So, if you don't see tears...thats serious pain!!!

BLOOD! Literally, sometimes. I once flew out to town to donate blood for a dying indian. No one else with his blood type could be bothered. I gave so much blood I nearly passed out. And I gave again in a few days. I wanted to give more but they would not let me. His father placed his sons hand in mine and said, "He's your son now too. He has your blood now."
His father had never wanted to listen to the gospel until that day. He is now a believer!


SWEAT! I have seen my husband work with them. He helped them build the school. He helped them build the dispensary, he helped them cut the airstrips they needed so the plane could get in to take out medical emergency patients. I have seen his shirt soaked as he worked hard in the sauna like environment of the jungle. I have seen him go days without sleep caring for the sick. This speaks volumes.


TEARS! How many caskets have we built? I remember one baby we were hand feeding , drop by drop as we could not get in an IV. We were unable to fly our plane out due to government problems and red tape. We called for the health department planes, but they were BUSY flying assembly members to Angel Falls for a vacation. When the baby died, my husband built the tiny casket. Jewel lined it with a blue gingham material and Jayde sang Jesus Loves Me in Ye'kwana at the funeral.

We are by no means, SUPER missionaries. These stories could be repeated over and over again by a number of missionaries. I just feel they need to be put in writing so that others can know of the many things God is doing in Missions today. Often times we act as if the God of the Old Testament is dead and no longer works among us. Or we read of great missionaries of the last century and wonder why God is not doing the same great things today. He still is! I have witnessed it.